Would you ever do this to your child?

My parents finally found out I'm pregnant, I got married in March and I'm due in November with my first baby. I've been with my husband for 9 years almost. We've had our share of problems with my parents not approving us and so forth. They didn't know we got married, we just eloped because I was pregnant and we knew my parents were never going to come around like they claim they would. After 8.5 years, they still haven't allowed us to be formally engaged or to plan our wedding. Anyway, because they reacted so badly to our marriage, I held off telling them about the pregnancy. Some of my grandmother knew as I confided in her, my mom was complaining to a family friend about me, who in turn gave my grandma grief and my grandma let the secret out, that I couldn't even tell them I'm pregnant by the way they are behaving. Anyway, the bottom line is now they know I'm pregnant, and instead of acting like adults they call me and tell me off...yelling and screaming things like your a slut, you nasty b****, you're a whore. My dad, who hasn't spoken to me since he found out we married, then says I want my f***ing money back...this being the money they gave me to attend post secondary school. I know the stress is bad for my baby. But I'm so hurt, I could never say things like that to my child. I have never spoken a "swear" word to my parents but for them to call me those names. I mean I've had one serious relationship in the last 8.5 years and have never been with anyone else. This doesn't make me a whore or a slut, right?